Fountain Courtyard at the Ingleside Estate

Welcome Party

Ingleside Estate

Wedding Day

Ceremony

Fountain Courtyard

Cocktail Hour

Reception

Melvyn's at the Ingleside Estate

After Party

Our Wedding

Shelby & Tyler

Like many modern love stories, ours began in 2018 with a Bumble match and a first date at a cozy speakeasy called Romolo15 in San Francisco. Shelby's first impression of Tyler was that he was the definition of tall, dark, and handsome but also incredibly funny and charming. Tyler says Shelby was sassy, sweet, and unforgettable (he still remembers the exact outfit she wore that night.) A week later, Tyler asked Shelby on a second date to a Childish Gambino concert at the Oracle Arena. So they met for drink in the city, grabbed roadies for the BART ride to Oakland and their shared love of music became one of the things that instantly bonded them. After casually dating for a few months, Tyler famously ghosted Shelby for a month before coming back around with an I feel like I owe you dinner text. Luckily for Tyler, that dinner changed the course of their relationship. What followed was what Tyler refers to as The Summer of Love - a few months full of a nights on the town, weekends with friends at Fort Mason, cozy nights in cooking keto dinners, concerts, late-night chats on the rooftop of Tyler's apartment and being the first two people in line on Sunday mornings for a hungover slice from Tony's Pizza. Since then, they've built a life filled with the things they love most: music, travel, ski trips, cooking, plenty of random hobbies and obsessing over their miniature dachshund, Luna. In January 2025, Tyler surprised Shelby with a proposal back in San Francisco, the city where it all began. He brought her to one of their favorite parks in North Beach with sweeping views of the city and asked her to marry him. Family and friends were waiting to celebrate, and the night was filled with dancing, lots of Italian food and all the places that shaped the early days of their relationship. Now, we can’t wait to celebrate this next chapter the only way we know how: surrounded by our favorite people, great music, free-flowing cocktails and a dance floor that stays packed all night. Can't wait to see you all in October 2026!

Our Story

Photos

Bridal Party

Brittany Nielson

Christopher Allan

Caitlin Caufield

Sydney Strommen

Emma Ghaderi

Ali Zidich

Wora Iddhibhakdibongse McCarthy

Luna

Groom's Party

Mitch Lawrence

Kyle Lawrence

Tyler Jannson

Arnaud Derval

Bryan Leard

Michael Miller

Ryan McCarthy

Anthony Marra

Scotty Nielson

Wedding Party

Accomodations

We’re so excited to share that we’ve reserved the entire Ingleside Estate in Palm Springs, CA exclusively for our wedding weekend. The link below allows you to book your room for Friday, October 23 – Sunday, October 25, 2026. If you’d like to extend your stay beyond these dates, please complete your reservation using the link and then email Abbie at Abbie.Nienkamp@avalonpalmsprings.com with your confirmation number to add additional nights. Room availability is extremely limited, so we&nbsp;highly&nbsp;encourage you to book early!

The Avalon Hotel is our designated overflow property and is located directly next door to the Ingleside Estate (just a quick 2-minute walk away!) We’ve secured a discounted rate for our guests - simply use the link below to book. Please note that rates may fluctuate, and once a reservation is made, Avalon is unable to adjust or modify the rate, so we encourage booking early!

Avalon Hotel & Bungalows Palm Springs

Arriving in Palm Springs

The closest airport is Palm Springs International Airport (PSP), conveniently located just 2.5 miles (about a 7-minute Uber) from our venue. PSP offers nonstop and connecting flights through major airlines including Alaska, Allegiant, American Airlines, Delta, Frontier, Southwest, and United. While guests are welcome to rent a car, it likely won’t be necessary as all wedding activities will take place in the same general area.

Palm Springs International Airport

Another option is Ontario International Airport (ONT), located about a 1 hour and 15 minute drive from Palm Springs. ONT offers flights from major airlines including Alaska, Allegiant, American Airlines, Delta, Frontier, JetBlue, Southwest, and United. Please note that traveling from ONT to Palm Springs will require a car rental or other ground transportation.

Ontario International Airport

The largest nearby airport is Los Angeles International Airport (LAX), located about a 2.5-hour drive from Palm Springs. LAX is served by all major airlines and offers the widest range of flight options. Traveling from LAX to Palm Springs will require a car rental or ground transportation.

Los Angeles International Airport

Travel

Registry

Things To Do in Palm Springs

Palm Springs Aerial Tramway

Ride the world's largest rotating tram cars from the desert floor up to Mount San Jacinto State Park, where it's often 30-40° cooler than town. Grab a drink or dinner at the top and take in sweeping views of the valley. Bring a layer!<a href="https://pstramway.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">pstramway.com</a>

Hike the Indian Canyons

Lush palm oases, streams and canyon trails on the ancestral lands of the Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians. The easy 1-mile Andreas Canyon loop is perfect for a morning walk. Go early to beat the heat.<a href="https://www.indian-canyons.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">indian-canyons.com</a>

Mid-Century Modern Architecture Tour

Palm Springs is famous for its Desert Modernism: butterfly roofs, breeze blocks, and those iconic colorful front doors. Take a self-guided drive through neighborhoods like Vista Las Palmas and Twin Palms, or download an audio tour to go at your own pace. Start at the Visitor Center, housed in a converted 1965 gas station. <a href="https://moderntourspalmsprings.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Modern Tours Palm Springs</a> · <a href="https://www.palmspringslife.com/modernism-app/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Palm Springs Modernism app</a>

Palm Springs Art Museum

A downtown gem with modern and contemporary art, Western and Native American art, and architecture and design exhibits. Tickets also get you into the Architecture and Design Center a few blocks away.<a href="https://www.psmuseum.org/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">psmuseum.org</a>

Tee Off in the Desert

Greater Palm Springs has more than 100 golf courses, framed by palm trees and dramatic mountain views. Heads up: many local courses close for a few weeks in October to reseed for winter, so check what's open before you plan a round. <a href="https://www.teetimesusa.com/palm-springs-tee-times" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Tee Times USA</a> lets you compare live tee times across about two dozen area courses.

While You Visit

Classic, polished &amp; timeless.Suits, gowns, cocktail dresses and polished evening wear. Tuxedos welcome.

Dress Code

shelbyandtyler.com

Dress Code

FORMAL ATTIRE